Apr 03 2008

Thursday Thirteen: Traditions and Customs from Around the World

Published by auria cortes at 12:10 pm under Thursday Thirteen

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As you all know, the setting of Mija is in Puerto Rico. My culture is full of customs and traditions. Below are a list of customs and traditions from different parts of the country.

  • I’ll start with a tradition in many Puerto Rican households. Many of us have a machete next to the backdoor in case an intruder comes into the house. Yes, I know. The intruder can break in and get hold of the machete before we can get to it. Hey, traditions aren’t supposed to make sense. Right? The picture above is the machete that is near my door. It belonged to my parents and it’s the machete I grew up with.
  • Guadalupe Day: Guadalupe (pronounced gwahth ah LOO pay or GWAHD uhl OOP) Day commemorates the day that the Virgin Mary is believed to have appeared to Juan Diego, a Mexican Indian. According to legend, on Dec. 9, 1531, Juan was hurrying over Tepeyac Hill, in what is now Mexico City, when a vision appeared to him. A lady told him to ask the bishop to build a shrine where she stood. But the bishop did not believe Juan until the vision appeared again, on December 12, and produced a sign. The lady later appeared to Juan’s uncle and called herself Holy Mary of Guadalupe. Our Lady of Guadalupe (often called the Virgin of Guadalupe) became the patron saint of Mexico. (Source 

  • On November the 1 st and 2 nd the Dia de los Difuntos (Day of the Dead) is commemorated. Every family in Ecuador goes to the cemeteries to leave flowers and visit the family members who have died. (Source) 
  • One Costa Rica wedding tradition is for the bride to wear a long, black silk dress as her wedding gown. In other wedding traditions, this may seem inappropriate seeing that wearing a black dress typically signify death and mourning. But in most traditional Costa Rican wedding, the bride wears a black gown, in striking contrast to the immaculately white wedding gowns commonly worn by modern brides today. It is customary also for the groom to wear a shirt that is painstakingly hand-embroidered by his future wife. This will mean that the bride already shows her devotion and concern for her future husband, even before the marriage ceremony has taken place. (Source 
  • Flying Bells: Children don’t look for eggs left by an Easter Bunny… rather, the French believe that the Flying Bells leave on the Thursday before Good Friday, taking with them all the grief and misery of mourners of Christ’s crucifixion, reaching Rome to see the Pope and then come back on Easter Sunday morning bearing chocolate easter eggs, which are hidden around houses and gardens for children to find. (Source)

  • April 2nd in Argentina — Dia de las Malvinas or Malvinas Day.  This commemorates the day in 1982 that the Argentine military invaded the Falkland Islands with the commitment of reclaiming them from the British.   Both Great Britian and Argentina still claim jurisdiction over the Falkland Islands, known in Argentina as Islas Malvinas. (Source)

  • Sati was a Hindu funeral custom, now very rare and a serious criminal act in India, in which the dead man’s widow would throw herself on her husband’s funeral pyre in order to commit suicide. The act of sati was supposed to take place voluntarily, and from the existing accounts, most of them were indeed voluntary. The act may have been expected of widows in some communities. The extent to which any social pressures or expectations should be considered as compulsion has been the matter of much debate in modern times. It is frequently stated that a widow could expect little of life after her husband’s death, especially if she was childless. However, there were also instances where the wish of the widow to commit sati was not welcomed by others, and where efforts were made to prevent the death. (Source)
  • domovoi (Russian Spirit). A well-wishing spirit of the house who helped with domestic chores. Domovoi played tricks on people only when the owners were lazy or negligent, and lived in harmony with things from the church. Appearance: An old peasant with a long gray beard; also appeared as a cat or a dog. Tricks: Stole neighbor’s oats; if unhappy, was known to mess up the yard, tangle needlework, spread manure on the door, or, in extreme cases of anger, suffocate the victim. (Source)
  •  Andrew’s Day (Andrzejki): This a special night for young Polish girls who want to find a husband. On this night and the next day, fortunes are told and the results are not taken lightly. Here is the most popular way that are fortunes are told: The most popular way is by melting wax and pouring it into a bowl of cold water. Wax is then picked up from the water, raised to the light, and the girls try to see the similarities of it to real objects. Depending on the shapes, fortunes are told for the following year. If nothing meaningful comes up, there is always a chance that a girl will dream of something important dealing with her future, that night - but only if she could remember it. (Source)
  • Gullah burial customs begin with a drum beat to inform people that someone in town has died. Mirrors are turned to the wall so the corpse cannot be reflected. The funeral party takes the body to the cemetery, but waits at the gate to ask permission of the ancestors to enter. Participants dance around the grave, singing and praying, then smash bottles and dishes over the site to “break the chain” so that no one else in the same family will soon die. Then, the funeral group returns to town and cooks a large meal, leaving a portion on the veranda for the departed soul. (Source)

I’m short a few tradtions. Provide a tradition of your own in the comments section and help me complete the list.

12 Responses to “Thursday Thirteen: Traditions and Customs from Around the World”

  1. YummY!on 03 Apr 2008 at 12:14 pm

    My wedding dress was mostly black. I hate white and didn’t want to be married in white.

  2. marshon 03 Apr 2008 at 12:44 pm

    in india they put designs infront of they doors( like door mats)
    made from colord sand or rice it’s to kind of keep home safe it’s called rangoli!!!! or alpana it’s beautiful and they do it every day!!! i adopted a girl from india in 1988 her indian name was alpana same as above it means painted prayers and she has been my answer to my prayer !!!!!!! a little about me thanks for the chance to share!!! bionic marsh

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  4. Melanieon 03 Apr 2008 at 1:25 pm

    Very interesting TT! Thanks!

  5. Erikaon 03 Apr 2008 at 7:06 pm

    Many people probably know about this, but I didn’t learn about King Cake until I experienced my first Mardi Gras with my “native” neighbor after moving to New Orleans in ‘05 .

    King cake
    From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia:

    “A king cake (sometimes rendered as kingcake or kings’ cake) is a type of cake associated with the festival of Epiphany in the Christmas season in a number of countries, and in other places with Mardi Gras and Carnival. It is popular in Christmas season in France (galette/gâteau des Rois), Portugal (Bolo Rei), Spain (Roscón de Reyes and in Catalonia called tortell), Greece (vasilopita) and Bulgaria (banitsa). In the United States, which celebrates Carnival ranging from Mobile, Alabama to East Texas, centered on New Orleans it is associated instead with Mardi Gras season traditions.
    The cakes have a small trinket (often a small plastic baby, sometimes said to represent Baby Jesus) inside, and the person who gets the piece of cake with the trinket has various privileges and obligations.”

  6. Sassy Mama Bearon 03 Apr 2008 at 7:13 pm

    I love a Thursday Thirteen that teaches me something.
    I cannot think of a particular custom off the top of my head. Wish that I could.

  7. sunshineon 03 Apr 2008 at 8:06 pm

    Thanks! I look forward to Thursday Thirteen!!!

  8. Diane J Standifordon 03 Apr 2008 at 9:44 pm

    Interesting, I’m a mutt-Irish, French, German, Swedish, British…and I don’t know a single custom of any of them. We DID keep a baseball bat for intruders. I am not big on rituals.

  9. Diane J Standifordon 05 Apr 2008 at 7:37 am

    Anybody know about tying ribbons on trees? Not yellow, not in USA, I seem to remember an Asian ceremony…adding one at a time…anybody?

  10. auria corteson 05 Apr 2008 at 6:22 pm

    I googled it Diane and didn’t find anything. Now I’m curious. Do you know if it’s a Pakistan, China, Korea…or another specific Asian ceremony?

    Erika, thanks for that tidbit of info. I didn’t know anything about King Cake.

    marsh, i didn’t know you adopted a daughter. thank you for sharing.

  11. Doug Robertsonon 05 Apr 2008 at 9:19 pm

    Like Diane, I’m a mutt, too, Scottish and Native American, and I’m sure countless other peripheral heritage, and yet have nothing on top of my head related to tradition on either side. I do have a baseball bat at the ready, just in case. The machete is a bit scary, though. Guess I’ll scratch that surprise onsite booty call from my list of things to do! yikes.

    I found nothing about Asian tradition regarding ribbons on trees, either. Some site about Asian American girls committing suicide at a high rate, but those ribbons were yellow and magnetized for SUVs and stuff. Not anything traditional. I’d be interested to know about the ceremony, if anyone comes up with anything.

  12. Diane J Standifordon 06 Apr 2008 at 3:00 am

    A message tree…we who are searching this do not recall, but THINK Japan…it is from somewhere…I’m going to search photos, a few distant (not exactly what we wanted) sites showed up…thanks guys.

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